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……and so the year 2013 ends today…gbam! No be news abi? True talk, its stale news that the year ends today; that’s for countries like mine that are yet to cross over into the New Year. So I asked myself what actually makes the year “new”? Is it the change in calendar or the cross over services held around the World or could it to be the screams at 12 am, the calls and text messages from loved ones? Yeah! Those are the sight and sounds that signify and herald a New Year. But there’s more. I believe I have a role to play in making the New Year a New one indeed. I have to be prepared for the coming year as I say goodbye to 2013. By now the version 2014 of me should be loading ready to be activated by midnight. I should have deleted all unnecessary craps and weights; installed fresh plans and programmes for 2014. The same old me doing the same things the same old way I have always done them won’t work. Out dated versions of soft wares do not function properly and that’

What was the relationship with myself like? Hmmm…let me give you some minutes to think about that…..*smiles* Did I enjoy being me or I lived each day trying to be someone else ‘cos I was wallowing in the streams of self-comparison. Did I talk to myself? Well the only person who knows the truth about you better than others is you, that’s aside your maker. The need for “me to speak to me” and the need for “you to speak to you” is vital and if you don’t say the truth to yourself, you might as well remain in deception. Sometimes the best person to straighten you out is you. Did I spend time with me? What new things did you find out about yourself this year? To get to know someone better you have to spend time with that person. Did I take care of myself as I should have, did I do away with unnecessary luggage, did I eat the right things, was I there for me or I was too busy to notice me and my needs. Goals Was I able to achieve my set goals or did I just step int