Valentine Special with Mrs. Oshoforowa



Happy Valentine’s Day!

Today, we have in the house with us: 













Mrs Oshofowora aka TUSKY, the author of the book  BEDMATICS; an amazing wife and mother who is full of grace and wisdom. She is totally committed to building relationships by the Word.

Here is what she has to say to us this Valentine’s Day:

Never allow your relationship to be that of an emotionally starved partnership, a romantically malnourished relationship which waits for Valentine to exhibit gluttonous love.  Love should be shown daily.

For the singles

Furthermore, ladies really need to adjust the idea that many of us have which is the fact that it is the genetic and eternal responsibility of a man alone to show love and be romantic. Every man deserves a treat too, love is about two people. In fact both of you should be competing about who is going to surprise or trip the other most. You as a lady should not be a lake in your relationship who keeps receiving without giving back, after a while your fragrance will turn into an odour. And for the records, let me say it now that Romance and love doesn't need to include the exchange of sexual favours amongst the singles. It is not necessary or proper to do that. You can express your love without going there; leave the satin sheets to the married for now.

 And for the married, 

Please learn to spice up the BEDMATICS games regularly and at special occasions. Do something different; think out of the box, it's not a taboo dear Sis if you do the initiation for once. He is the one who has always been chasing and asking for it over the years, shock him and turn the tables, drive him crazy and do it ingeniously. Stop, stop, stop being so predictable! Juices and wine have more effective use in the bedroom than to be drunk alone on the dining table for example, (I'm still born again please, and I’m just telling you the truth), spice up the satin sheets.

Unlike the singles, you as a married have the added advantage of the bedroom, please use it wisely. Personally, if you want a man to go a bit crazy with generosity on the 14th, no crime in turning his head a bit on the 13th. I'm not saying you as a lady should bargain with your body, nah, that is nonsense, I'm saying Romance is not the jurisdiction of the man alone. Yes, MAN is a word in the middle of ro-MAN-ce, therefore, much lies with him but also remember that anyone who is in the middle of anything must definitely partake of it, therefore let it flow from both sides. You don't love people the way you want to be loved, you love people the way they want to be loved. Romance is the language of love, learn to speak your partner's dialect. The gifts, the messages, the eyes speaking, the soft touch, the whispers, the laughter, the compliments, the breakfast in bed, the serenade at work and the worship at the altar of each other's bodies. The Language of love is limitless, as vast as the ocean and deeper than the sea bed.

Finally, 
....you cannot remove God from the equation of romance and finance, He is the Governor of the global Bank and the EL-ROMANTIC himself, the CEO of jazzment, the God who takes our breath away with love. It becomes easier to love your partner when you partner with God because he makes both provision and inspiration available.

In conclusion, remember your most invaluable currency is still your heart and of course where ever your heart is, your treasures will be too.

HAPPY VALENTINE!

TUSKY
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