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The fact that you are in love, doesn’t mean you have to put up with every awkward thing that your lover offers? Love may claim to be a lot of things, but love is not stupid. It isn’t uncommon to see so called lovers who throw caution to the wind and endure untold abuses all in the name of love. This ought not be so. For example, there are lovers who are subjected to physical, verbal and sexual abuse in their relationship and yet they keep on complying with the selfish demands of their partner, all in the name of love. One husband told his wife, that he had become bored with their sex life, he said the only way he could get his sexual groove back on, was if she was willing to allow him sleep with her and another lady in their matrimonial bed. Guess what, she agreed. Can we call this love or insanity? Many people tolerate these absurdities in love simply because they want to avoid conflict. Some hold on to trashy elements in love, because of the fear of being alone. Others have

Giving of gifts, speaks volume of love to people. Studies have shown that giving makes people happy and happiness makes people give. Most importantly relationships are strengthened when gifts are given. I asked two couples what they got last valentine. The First gave a list of all they got and I could see that they couple were happy about the gifts. The second couple said they didn't exchange gifts because they were swamped with work. They both had targets to meet at work. Sad though, ‘cos giving and receiving of gifts is one of the love languages many people respond to. No matter how small, It's important you give your partner good gifts on special occasions like Valentine. People derive more happiness from spending money on "strong ties". Gifts make us feel close to our partners and that feeling of encourages us to give the more. It's important we make out time for our partners and make them feel important on special occasions. Never get too bus

HAPPY VALENTINE PEOPLE!!!! I’m sure you had fun. Well we have Rev. Deji Olabode in the house today. I will introduce him better next week, for now I want you to make welcome….Rev Deji Olabode Loving hard will do you no good if you are not loving smart. The major cause of love disappoints in our day is the human tendency to suspend our minds, while the heart is in full gear. Many lovers today tolerate a lot of junk in their relationships because they are ignorant of what their fundamental lover’s rights are. If you are ignorant of your rights as a lover, you are most likely to be cheated and abused. Worse still, a smart user can make you feel that your rights are a privilege. When a people are ignorant of their rights, injustices abound. Oh my heart breaks for the several millions who are being used and abused today in the name of love. Hopefully reading this today will empower you to stand and fight for what rightly belongs to you in love. It is important as a lover not to yield y

Oluwole who is well known as "Love Doctor" is a radio show host. He helps singles overcome difficult or traumatic situations in their relationships.  In his words “the world of emotion has suffered bankruptcy and it’s time we create emotional wealth”. He teaches how to build successful relationships and speaks professionally. He works in the community to share his passion of helping others GET INSPIRED. He is the brain behind the radio program and the live show “The Singles Challenge”. He has appeared as a guest on several radio programmes, among which are Voice of Nigeria, Noun 105.9, and the number one Nigeria Online Radio, Praise World Radio.   Oluwole has been featured in several magazines like Proverb & Wisdom in the United States and has been interviewed by the Voice of Nigeria. As a radio host, Oluwole Inspires Singles & Teenagers to writes articles and make positive life changes. He is thrilled and making such a positive difference around the worl

  Oluwole inspires will be here tomorrow to talk more about spicing up your relationships. I just want to prepare your minds *wink*. Don’t worry I won’t take your time. So…here we go…. Pepper, salt, crayfish..... yspot really? Get serious joor.  Laughing.....alright on a serious note now. Go for picnics together Take walks together Be mad at each other when it is necessary ooops...not that way, be matured about it Yea....this is better Try out crazy things Hang out with friends Window shop together Dance together even if you don’t know how to Eat out  Do those little things that matter to your partner Pray together Well, these are just a few. I hope it was helpful for someone. But wait...when last did you do any of these, at least three? Be adventurous!   All these things help solidify your friendship. A relationship doesn't really exist when friendship is absent. Friendship is

I Love February, it’s the month Where we give a good definition to Love. Some few weeks back I got talking to some people on a subject that interest me. What color comes to mind, when you think about Love? So I decided to take a survey. Have a feel of my survey. I got very surprising and funny responses. One person said "money". I didn't know what color that was; maybe green, but I wasn't sure. Two persons said love didn't have any color. Another two said love was the color of the rainbow…hmmmm, nice thought. Of all the people interviewed, only 3 chose red as the color of love; this surprised me, since red is the color associated with Valentines' Day. I guess passion doesn't necessarily mean love. There was a tie; 4 persons each said white and yellow were the colors of love. well…white or yellow as the color of love…..really. I can understand wanting a pure love (white) or a wise and happy love sha. 5 people choose pink. Pink means beauty, obvi

It’s the month of love! Come on… let’s raise the flag of love high………   I ’m so excited and expectant. One of my favorite love stories is the love story of Jacob and Rachael. Jacob loved Rachael from the first moment he laid his eyes on her. When Jacob’s eyes met Rachel’s, it was as if nothing else mattered; the world came to a stop…..slow motion things. Quit wondering how I got to know…I know how it feels; I have been there jare…..lol. Sometimes I marvel at Jacobs’s patience; the length of time it took for him to wait before his true love could be his. I can’t help but wonder what it must have felt like to have waited that long. The good thing was that the feeling was mutual or else Jacobs’ effort would have been wasted. Rev. T.D Jakes said in his book “Before You Do” - “there is nothing more gratifying than a relationship with someone with whom you can share your innermost thoughts and feelings. Having a partner to rely on, to have your back through life’s ups an